What advice would you like to give to Indian girls?

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Disclaimer: The answer may seem harsh. But It’s hard to accept the truth when the lies were exactly what you wanted to hear.

• Yes, It’s our job to respect you but it’s your job to give us something to respect.

• So, you want to drink alcohol? Cool, do that. But drink it only if you really enjoy it. Don’t drink because it’s cool to drink. That’s utter bullshit.

• If you don’t have hundreds of likes on your Facebook or Instagram pictures, then that doesn’t mean you aren’t beautiful. Trust me, you are. Those likes don’t determine anything. Sometimes the likes are for the effects you have used in those pictures :D

• Just because a guy writes quite good answers on Quora, that doesn’t mean he will be a perfect partner. He can be a master talker. Beware.

• Just because we somehow make eye contact with you in passing or smile at you, doesn’t mean we are being creepy and want to bang you.

• So, you believe in equality. Then stop creating a fuss about sitting on the ladies seat in the metro. Even you can offer your seat to old-aged-people or someone in need.

• For the sweet love of God please understand that guys too get uncomfortable when it is crowded in the metro. It’s not like brushing past or learning is some kind of an anticipated moment for us. It was accidental. Period.

• When you are mad at us, don't make us guess. 9 times out of 10 we have no idea what's wrong and it's probably just a misunderstanding. We want you to just tell us.

• Yes, makeup looks good. But your eyes and smile look the best.

• You don’t always need to wear those short black dresses to look good. You look beautiful in traditional attire too. After all, Modesty has its own charm.

• Always choose yourself. There is nothing wrong in being selfish. Your happiness and peace of mind matters, and not those sick relationships.

• So, your partner wants you to be slim. And you don’t want to lose weight. Then just don’t do it. You don't need to lose weight for 'someone'. Do it for yourself. Eat as much as you want to. There are people who don’t get food to eat.

• Stop talking to your toxic ex. An ex is an ex for a reason. Being friends with him will do nothing good for both of you.

• It’s not always a guy’s duty to pay bills. If you want to be modern, start by being independent.

• If a guy has played with your heart it does not mean that all the other guys will also do like that. Stop generalizing.

• Learn self-defence, both emotionally and physically. We want you to be on your own :)

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